Meet with other local mixed race people to network and share the unique experiences that come along with having a multi-ethnic background. If you're unsure if this group is for you, this may help*: You know you are a hapa if... -You don't look like your cousins -You feel guilty for not knowing one of your cultures -When people meet you they ask your race -People know you're a mix but don't know what you are exactly -You stand out in family photos -When you speak your native language you get weir …